Sunday Newscape Magazine

After a two week hiatus I realized it was time to write again. The sudden death of my dear friend left my mind in a scrambled mess. I tried to figure out how this could happen to such a beautiful person, but nothing seemed to make any sense. It never occurred to me how the loss of someone you love so dearly hits until now.

Instead of writing a tribute or focusing on all the bad that has occurred; I decided to use this experience to help others. Some might believe what I am about to write; and some may not, but if I can help one person that’s all that matters. For those who have lost a loved one this should offer comfort, for those who haven’t this may help.

Before this tragic event occurred I remember a day that changed my life. Several months ago I had one of those days that if anything could go wrong it did, and if something could go right, it didn’t. So I retreated to my basement office like a defeated animal with its tail between its legs. As I entered my office I noticed something quite amazing. In the middle of my room there was a single ray of sunshine where I normally sit which gave me a sense of peace. The first thing I did was grab a book to inspire me and relieve the immense stress I felt. After a few minutes of looking, the book had no use for me and I threw it down in disgust.

I remembered the phrase,” Ask and You Shall Receive” as I muttered more words of disgust and dropped to my knees saying a prayer. My only thought after that was of my father-in-law who passed away years ago. He was always a comfort to me when he was alive. He was someone who gave a good answer to anyone who asked him a question. This day I prayed for his help.

A few minutes passed and out of the corner of my eye I saw a miracle. To my right was the book that I threw to the ground and I watched a page turn right in front of my eyes. As I looked I noticed a phrase I must have highlighted a few years ago that brought a tear to my eye. It read, “The Rough is Only Mental.” In other words, I asked for an answer and received one. I dusted myself off, stood tall, and went back to work.

I used that story as I stood in front of hundreds to eulogize my friend a couple of weeks ago. The amazing sense of warmth and love I felt in that church was something I will never forget. I felt as if I struck a cord in those who attended the service on such a sad day. I noticed people with frowns of sorrow then wiped tears with a smile and a nod.

Unfortunately, in these hard times I can only imagine how many people have experienced the same type of tragic loss. These times are tough, that is just how life is. If you have lost a loved one take comfort knowing that they always hear you and don’t be afraid to speak your mind to them. They just might offer you a miracle too.

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